Child’s Mental And Phisical Health Depends On Family
Marina Kumsieva in Russian
After being born or, more exactly, right after conception, a baby gets to a space formed by his parents’ interaction. The baby is very sensitive to the character of the relationship, its emotional coloring. The Structures of his or her mind are formed similar to the structure of an energoinformational exchange in the family.
When a man and a woman have well-balanced relationship, they form a certain stable system on both the physical and the energetical levels.
The man perceives cosmic energoinformational flows, protects his family from external harmful interference and provides it with all the things needed, he builds a home, teaches and forwards the cosmic creative stream.
The woman is connected to the earthly energy. She preserves the system and fills it from the inside. She gives birth and nurtures children. When it is necessary she inspires the man to provide family well-being, she nourishes his energy.
This way, the well-balanced "man-woman" system is connected both with space and with the Earth. It carries out certain natural and space functions and develops itself, enriching both the man and the woman with experience of relationships harmonization.
The process of giving birth and upbringing of children promotes strengthening and development of a family as well as parents spiritual growth. Time and again we have to work on our own flaws with the help of the children. After all, children mirror our world view, behavior and habits. They perceive clearly the attitude of their parents towards them and acquaintances as well as relationship between each other. All these factors form baby’s mentality, values and character as well as his or her destiny and even health in the future.
There are two components: a male one – yang and the female one – yin, which manifest themselves on all levels of someone’s life (the material body, consciousness, subconsciousness etc.). Theoretically, the ideal man has 70% of male components and 30% of female ones. For the ideal woman it is 30% of male components and 70% of female ones. On the level of consciousness such qualities as bravery, courage, strong will, abstract thinking and logic are considered to be male ones. Female qualities include gentleness, femininity, flexibility, intuition, tenderness, sensibility and others.
While still being in his mother’s womb, the child already starts to perceive the surrounding world. The received information is recorded on his mind (consciousness) like on a clean tape or a CD in the modern world of computers. Mother’s emotional state, her fears and anxiety, all of her surrounding world perception has a strong impact. Whether she listens to tuneful classical music or to hard rock, which destroys thin natural energetic structures. All of it determines the state of consciousness and subconsciousness of the child, his future preferences and physical health.
The child is connected to his mother physically and energetically, so his emotional state is formed in compliance with his mother’s. During the process of being born the child gains his first skills and abilities to survive on the Earth, to adapt to new conditions of self-reliant life. That’s why it is very important to make the childbirth process as natural as possible, so that the woman giving birth would be well prepared physically and emotionally. Then the Nature itself would do everything “without a hitch”, because every woman has a program of this process recorded on the level of her reflexes. It just needs to be activated. Asanas and pranayamas of Hatha Yoga, dynamic exercises (gymnastics for joints, spine gymnastics), mind stabilizing meditation, swimming help to develop the birth giving activity program, which is put in woman’s organism by the Nature. Muscles and ligaments in good shape together with calm and self-assured mood will give excellent results. During both the pregnancy and the delivery man’s support would be much needed.
A father and a mother are the first people, with the help of whom the child comes into this world, forms his views and concepts, learns how to communicate and gains energy change experience. According to his attitude towards his parents the human being builds up his relationship with people around.
consciousness is formed according to a similarity principle. Let’s take a
look at how person’s attitude towards his or her parents influences the
development of mentality
The attitude towards the father
For the man his attitude towards the father is reflected in display of his own man's qualities, as well as in his attitude towards men. So, for example, the man, who doesn’t respect his father, will be soft, indecisive, and lacking confidence. It will be difficult for him to adapt to changes of social conditions. He won't respect different kinds of male activities (nailing something, repairing a chair etc.).
Woman’s attitude towards her father forms a model of her attitude towards other men, as well as towards such male qualities in her character as strong will, firmness, resoluteness, self-belief, self-discipline, sense of purpose and others. This way it influences the extent of display of these qualities.
The attitude towards the mother
Man’s attitude towards his mother defines the model of his attitude towards other women. Besides, it forms such female qualities in him, as tenderness, sensitivity, keenness, refinement, tactfulness and others. When the man doesn’t respect his mother these qualities will be manifested very poorly.
For the woman her attitude towards her mother is also very important. It assists in manifestation and development of the important female qualities, feminine appearance and manners, as well as her attitude towards women in general.
The main thing is for a child as well as adult to understand correctly how to treat his parents, being their son or daughter. First of all, it is necessary to develop gratitude and respect for each of the parents, as for the ones performing these roles and carrying out certain functions. He or she has given you life and the body. They have been nurturing you, giving you clothes and food for a long period of time, which means they’ve put a lot of effort and energy into this.
thing about the pre-natal period in addition to the information mentioned in
the article “Baby: to be or not to be…?”. It is very undesirable, when a family wants and expects
a baby of a certain sex. This way, the parents’ thoughts set a program of
development according to the certain sex for the baby.
For example, if a girl is born, and they’ve wanted and expected a boy, the girl will be under the influence of the program of a male way of development which can affect the child both on the physical plan and character. This way we have women who have chosen the male path and don’t want to obtain and develop feminine qualities and to carry out female functions. The same thing can happen to families with a boy, but who were expecting a girl.
The Universe has a severe punishment for those men and women, who evade their purpose. More often they lose their posterity. In the future it can be loneliness, dissatisfaction with oneself and life in general, apathy, spiritual and physical degradation.
In case when children are adopted and parents become foster, it means that once in the past embodiments all of them (both children and parents) haven't carried out completely the corresponding responsibilities in family, they haven't worked out necessary qualities in interaction with each other, and they haven't paid it off by karma. Now it gives them a new possibility to carry it out.
A baby should always be desired and loved by both parents, regardless of sex, family’s prosperity and other circumstances. The Universe helps and gives power and material resources for bringing up each newborn (see “Baby: to be or not to be…?”).